May and June are often times of relationship celebrations – Mothers’ Day, Fathers’ Day, weddings, family reunions, out of town visitors. Some of these gatherings are out of obligation; others are a joy as we reconnect with loved ones, renew relationships, and share our recent experiences.
God created us to live in a web of relationships. What was it that God said of the first person, even in the Garden of Eden? “It is not good that the man should be alone…” (Genesis 2:18a). Whether we live in a nuclear family, a blended family, an extended family, or as single by choice or circumstance, the Lord knows we need company / companions – sometimes many, sometimes a few, sometimes only one. Alone we can become so focused on our own view that we forget the need for connection or even in relationships with others, if we are isolated or shut-out, we miss the necessary connections that make us whole persons. Now, I am not saying every person has to be married to be complete, nor as I merely saying “everybody, needs somebody sometime” (I will leave that to the old singer Dean Martin.) But we are persons who need relationships to grow into the full child of God we are intended to be – relationships with loved ones by birth and by choice. Yet, even the best other person is not enough. We also need a relationship with God and the people of God. We recognize that truth when we talk about the church as the family of faith.